The very basic things to know about “full filling our dream is” First we should know what we want exactly:
How much of you know exactly “what you want” for example most of people say I need money:
Digging down the question give some result like: why you want this money? Can you eat this money or you want touch feel (i.e. almost a simple paper touch) obviously not at all.
We all need money for some purpose like I have to own Home, I want to purchase clothes, I want to marry my daughter,I want to gift my mom etc,etc.
Again take any one question from above and go one step further down:
Why we want to have a home: Answer may be like these: I want a home to live in; I want a home to rent it. I want a home to show myself prosperous, I want to have a home for good investment etc, etc.
Take again any one answer of this and go further like: Why we want to rent it: answer may be like : We need some easy money , We want some regular income without any effort, I want to keep someone nearer to us.
Again take any answer which you suits and go further, like why we need some regular income: And answer may be like these: I want to be free from my regular basic need.
We can take any answer again and can further unless until we get our ultimate answer:
It doesn’t care how much question you take and how much answer you digged down , as per my research and survey done by me there are some absolute points which every one(most of us common men) need the same this in the last to have a successful life as per their definition. Anyone can realize a fully satisfied and successful life at any stage of life with any condition of financial achievement if he has the following things achieved in his life.
These things are
1- Sukh( Comfort of life)
2- Shanti (Peace of mind)
3- Swasthya (Perfect health for physically independency)
4- Samriddhi (Day by day growth in all aspects of life in comparison of last time)
5- Success(Success each time whenever we act something aim fully)
So, when we ask something from god or when we try to achieve anything in result we want to get either all of above or some of above or any of above. Then why we not pray directly above five things??The answer is because we want it in our way otherwise it is true that god has already given us something to be satisfied as a Saint do, A saint like Sai Baba or Kabir Das Ji all are well satisfied with their life because they have achieved and realized all those five elements in the same situation (without any more wish).
But here I am not asking you to be sanyasi or sant here I am giving the way by which we can realize all those five elements as per our style or way. If you want realize “Love- Rati sukh” then as per your way you would like to have a good and beautiful wife. So hear you will learn how to attract this situation in which result I get a marriage offer from a girl which is exactly same as we wish.
So the First and most important thing is just know what we really want in order to achieve the same.
I will start with the very first and important thing..
Know, what you really want: First of all anyone should be very clear in his mind that what he really want. May be you feel this thing very stupid but I am giving you an example. One of my friend was going to give exam and unfortunately he missed his bus by which he had to reach examination center so he borrowed a cycle and started towards in the direction of bus and every moment he was praying to the god “Hay god may I could catch this bus” .God listened to him and after run of Half Km he got the Bus. He reached happily to the exam centre but what happened then .He was forgotten his Exam card at his home .So he missed his exam?
At the time of god prayer he was sure he is asking the right thing to the God but he was wrong. He should ask “Hay God I could face this exam timely and nicely for a better result”
So in every “asking” we should go further deeper to think why I am asking this. Why I am asking to catch the Bus? Is our aim is catch the bus or attend the exam? Then why not asking “I could attend exame”.Again why I am asking for attending exam? Is to attend the exam is my final aim? No, to pass this exam nicely is our ultimate goal in this scenario so we should pray like: “Hay God I could face this exam timely and nicely for a better result”
Always care; you should never ask any thing which make you regret in the last.
In my next post I will discuss only this point :How to know what we really want” .So please ask if any of you have any related query.
Continued…..
Thursday, January 28, 2010
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its reality of life ,as every one is concerneed with the superficial level of life only ,but no one is concerned with the routcause ,why it is required.the blog conveys this reality of life.
ReplyDeleteyour imagination to depth of life is remarkable,hope to read your more experience
waiting your next post
Hi Mr.Chaturvei
ReplyDeleteYou are right? Actually majority of us don’t now what he actually need and all are running behind a blind, unspecified and may be unacceptable goal unnowingly.So strat thinking consciously and create your life as you desire.
Don’t create your life aimlessly and unknowingly....
Every human born has some basic necessity ingredients for himself like Roti, Kapda aur Makaan,
ReplyDeleteNow the necessity after a level reaches and enjoys the luxury that now the human starts having Roti in a Small restaurnat,then 3 star restaurant and than a five star restaurant similarly it happens with Makaan to Pent House and so on.
So it is evident that every human has a tendency or desire to grow big and big.
In all management books we commnly find Maslows Triangle clearly indicating the human nature and behaviour to achieve more and more.
Now that urge for more has taken a commercial nature of Greed which is very sad and unfortunate because by that the Nature,s Law of Equality has been hampered resulting in inequality and injustice.
So i wish we all set on the same wings to fly.
Regards
Dear shivam
ReplyDeleteIf your are watching “Raaj Pichhle Janm ka” and believe that our present is the result of our past then I would like to tell you some facts about “Karama theory”
The theory of Karma says that our Past life Karma creates only situations and circumstances but never decide our action in that. I am giving you an example: If you have done some bad money Karma and the result of the same you will born in some poor family but it doesn’t menat that now you will do steal, murder and loot only. You can do hard work to change your poverty. The meaning is that any men who react against his circumstances is his own and only own decision. Our past pulls us in the particular circumstances but the any action taken by us is our own decision.
Now the question is why some body reacts positively and some of them react negatively. The answer is “Our decision of action is influenced by our Sanskara and believes systems”
Now what is sanskara and believe system is the big question and you will get their details in my Blog but at the time when I will come to the techniques to remove our past Karma to improve our current life situations.
The last thing which you desired in your last line
“Looking forward to eventually gain all my desires and quenching this Thirst in this life only”
So, friend! You can gain you wildest dream in your current life for that the following main points are required:
1- Remove your Past karma to improve your current life situations: In our current live whenever we do any action it may be successful or unsuccessful depending on our destiny which is guided by our Karma. When we removed our Karma, then any action give us quick result in big or tinny desire both, like if we search a job (a big thing), we get it sooner, when we need a movie ticket we get it very easily and even some time when ticket window is closed somebody come and return their ticket and we get those ticket even by not paying time in standing in row or without any prier booking. When we want to go to see any country, our employer arranges a meeting there and we visit that country without paying any penny.
2- Learn to clarify what you really want: As I discussed in my Second post.
3- Change your believe system
4- Visualize what you want
5- Be ready to receive
All the five techniques will be discussed in my Post one by one .They really work for anyone but who use this technique as well he receive any thing as well and quick .Result quality and time taken is totally dependent on your ability to use all of those five things.
Thanks
Sunil Shukla
Very nice thoughts - thanks for sharing. Look forward to your blogposts.
ReplyDeleteHi Archikins
ReplyDeleteThanks for complement.I am going to post a very useful article very soon and will be waiting your next coments.
Sunil Shukla